Unconciously teeth clenching guy that won't get help I'm dating is cramping my style?
I'm striving for the best advice that I can get here..I have been dating a guy who I starting sleeping with, but he clenches his teeth unconsciously when he sleeps.It is annoying, and I'm losing sleep. Ever since back in April-May 2009 he complained that his dentist drilled too deep and it hit a nerve.And he spent $1000 getting his wisdom teeth pulled, $300 for a splint that was plastic made clenching his teeth worse, and $80 online for a device that is suppose to stop snoring and also the clenching now just like he did with the plastic splint. I am going out of my mind losing sleep and I have fussed a couple of times like why didn't he just get a hold of his dentist for starting this mess in the first place. It’s been 1 year, and 6 months now of this teeth clenching still going on...I have had talks asking if he is passive he says he says he is not and that he told his dentist off, but his dentist told him he can't help him.He told me he had several metal fillings, and I told him about mercury poisoning.His dentist told him not to get his wisdom teeth pulled, but he did it anyway by another dentist..His dentist said he can't take the metal fillings out only if they are touching they cause problems.I'm scared he is going to break those metal fillings, and suffer from mercury poisoning.He has a real heavy clench it’s so bad he has made marks on both of his mouth guards.This guy is on his moms insurance, and he keeps saying that he doesn't have the money.His mom Devices To Help Stop snoring insurance last until he is out of college.His parents have had money they have supported his brother all through football so I don't see why he wouldn't ask for help. They have helped him before.Real soon he won't have his moms insurance to see a dentist. This guy works in a grocery store and makes $200 a week.. Most of his income he contributes from his paycheck from work because he and I are living together he contributes to the bills, and food.He also has to pay for his lab fees at college.It seems like he is putting this off more, and the excuse is he has to work save up his check so more time for him to keep putting this off.We have taken a vacation back in August what a vacation with a guy who clenches so much you can't stand to stay in the same hotel room, and it seemed like it was the excuse to spend the money he could have gotten help with...All kinds of excuses are being made maybe it’s the bed with metal springs, maybe its college, maybe its work, and maybe it’s just stress. Next you know it could be a cow on the moon as an excuse.Maybe he needs vitamins.NO this guy needs serious help.He clenches unconsciously every single night, and even when he takes naps in the day time.He sits depressed looking at me, and wonders why I'm sleeping away from him in the living room , but then there are more things keeping me awake ,and I am getting insomnia.I am woken up every morning with him going off the college.I have no idea what to do, but I'm getting ready to call it quits just maybe that might get him to stop wasting time putting things off , but I guess another excuse might come up like my dog or a floor board might be loose on the floor.I have even tried sleeping in another room, and I still can't get to sleep.I have walked by my room that I have given up and he is clenching for hours constantly unconsciously.I have thrown fits to nearly breaking up with him, but he cries and tells me he loves me.Now I have gone as far as I can take it, and now I am getting even more frustrated and cranky from no sleep.And I feel like my style, and my health is being cramped.What do I do?I don’t know if I should break up because I have given up everything.I can’t even leave home and do what I normally do because I’m drained from no sleep.I don't want to keep going in circles and suffering likes this anymore.I have talked to my parents and they keep saying well he loves you, and he isn’t like any other guy, but wait a minute I’m suffering here so I should just hang onto him because everyone thinks he really loves me ,and isn’t like any other guy yet I’m suffering from what he does at night and even sleeping in another room doesn’t do any good.I feel like I’m staying with this guy because I am being made to feel sorry out of pity.Like some kind of guilt trip. I have given up my room and my home for him to live with me to also finish college.Am I a bad girlfriend because I want my sleep back?I am in such heartache and grief because I don't want to seem like a bad person for standing up that I need my sleep, and that we are going to have to separate.Please help me.. Help me please..
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